Hope you play along too and join me in the fun. I'll let you know if I win.
Oh, and for plausible deniability, my wife wanted me to leave it to your imagination as to whether or not we actually performed the scenario or not. So I will describe the activities in a vague his and her point of view.
Taking on the role of a dominatrix is not as easy as it seems. Putting on the outfit is empowering and it can definitely help you get into character for your role. It can actually be just as hard being a good sex slave too. The sex scenario above is actually fairly tame but the power and emotional dynamics can be extremely intense. There's a lot more kinky sex play possibilities to explore. Here are a few books on the subject that you'll find very interesting:
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
The Hesitant Mistress: A Guide to Claiming Your Feminine Power
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime